-=|nN0c3Nt=- SG Recently i'm starting to haf a liking for a gal tat's 7yrs younger than mi... M i being normal for having tis kind of feelings for her? i'm currently 21yrs old while she's onli 14... wat should i do? pls feel free to gif my ur precious advice n personal experiances r also welcum... thanks alot...
-=|nN0c3Nt=- SG jus wan to add sumthing... i dun haf any fantasies on her... jus purely like her... M i mentally ill???
[email protected] SG Originally posted by -=|nN0c3Nt=-: Recently i'm starting to haf a liking for a gal tat's [b]7yrs younger than mi... M i being normal for having tis kind of feelings for her? i'm currently 21yrs old while she's onli 14... wat should i do? pls feel free to gif my ur precious advice n personal experiances r also welcum... thanks alot... [/b]hard to say.... im sure not having any sexual fantasies on her..... u aren't sick ah........... might be love.... u never know.... hey no one called rupert murdoch sick for marrying some lady 20 years younger than he is right? so dun worry too much.
-=|nN0c3Nt=- SG there's lots of things which i haf to consider lor... wat will ppl say abt the gal? ppl say abt mi, nvm.. but i dun wish to see her get hurt... afterall she's onli a sec skool student nw... ppl wun possibly be able to accept mi n her lor... wat should i do? should i woo her or jus let her go... forget abt her?
the Bear SG unless you're willing to wait another 7 years (okay, maybe when she's 18).. p.s. edited to kill the stupid eight-right parenthesis smiley
skeujin SG pls lah. she’s so young, wat does she knw about luv n sacrifice n relationships. she probably hasnt hit puberty yet. geez….
AzRaeL SG go for it, just dont have sex till she's 16 or there'll be trouble. if you really like her, go for her and wait. and yes, 14 year olds are already past puberty.
AzRaeL SG it's a matter between you and her. i first dated my GF when she had just turned 16, i was 27. She's 18 next month and we're still together.
AzRaeL SG Originally posted by the Bear: unless you're willing to wait another 7 years (okay, maybe when she's 18[b]).. p.s. edited to kill the stupid eight-right parenthesis smiley [/b]i beg to differ, age has nothing to do with love and maturity. she might be just looking for and older guy to show her life rather than date another 15 year old kid.
the Bear SG no man, i'm bad at mental arithmatics... and i thought the age of consent was 18? hmmm... oh well...
AzRaeL SG only in Commie countries like the United States. In Canada, age of Consent is 14. Japan: 13 Singapore - 14 by Criminal Law but the Women's Charter has raised it to 16. http://www.ageofconsent.com/ageofconsent.htm
AzRaeL SG the United States has more ridiculous laws than Singapore. Sure they made fun of singapore's gum laws but American laws are amongst the most conservative on Earthy. Their Gun laws? it's centuries old and they refused to amend it to control guns. the 1st Amendment? that's a joke.... you can't speak out against the Bush administration without fear of being singled out as unpatriotic and boycotted. Their sex laws? Archiac with a 18 year age of consent (16 in some states) Their Drug laws? ridiculous...drug deals scoot free and Marijuanna peddlers get life in jail. Dont forget their "Racial Profiling" They demand free trade but are the world's biggest protectionists when it comes to their own industries.
Marmalade Boy SG Originally posted by -=|nN0c3Nt=-: Recently i'm starting to haf a liking for a gal tat's [b]7yrs younger than mi... M i being normal for having tis kind of feelings for her? i'm currently 21yrs old while she's onli 14... wat should i do? pls feel free to gif my ur precious advice n personal experiances r also welcum... thanks alot... [/b]To my own personal view, its very normal because when i was 16... i went with my ex stead who was only 12. We lasted for 6 years down the road but it didn't lasted. In any case, if you do go with that girl whom you have feelings for. Just remember this, its going to take lots of time and effort to be with her. Just be mentally prepared... Good luck and hope that it will work out for the best.
-=|nN0c3Nt=- SG thanks for ur encouragement... it realli makes mi feel better after reading ur comment... thanks...
-=|nN0c3Nt=- SG i understand wat u mean. but i also fear there may be generation gap lor... as in differences in topics tat we can tok abt... as u know, the age @ which their thinking are are alittle different from wat i'm thinking lor... hw do i overcum tis problem?
Marmalade Boy SG Generation gap... its unavoidable! But if you both are willing to put effort in your new relationship. Then you got to help her understand what you are talking about or going through and of course without saying vice versa. Age is just a number... if you both sincerely love each other then believe that love can be able to conquer all. Most importantly is communication because of your age difference. No matter what happens just remember that she will be needing you for guidance and support etc till she gains enough exprience from your new relationship or expriences from you. Either way, don't be shock or stunned if one day she thinks that she knows all that. Just remember to explain everything from a to z and help each other understand each other. Good luck and all the best!
AzRaeL SG what generation gap! it's only 7 years. have her read more. find out what she likes and she finds out what you like. there you go! all the best.
